Talking with young people about suicide – MHF launches five new videos to help guide the kōrero

For adults who want to start a kōrero/conversation with taiohi/young people about suicide.
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Date: 23 August 2019
Talking with young people about suicide - MHF launches five new videos to help guide the kōrero

 23 Aug, 2019


The Mental Health Foundation (MHF) has released a new video series: Connecting through Kōrero.

The videos are for adults who want to start a kōrero/conversation with taiohi/young people about suicide. The Connecting Through Kōrero suite of resources first launched with an online resource, which includes helpful conversation starters, things to avoid when discussing suicide, answers to tricky questions and where to turn for more support. The resource quickly became one of the Foundation’s most popular resources.

“We developed the online Connecting Through Kōrero resource because we knew young people were talking to each other about suicide, but those conversations weren’t necessarily as safe and supportive as they could be. We wanted to encourage adults to join the kōrero and talk with their young people about suicide and, critically, suicide prevention,” MHF chief executive Shaun Robinson says.

“Through testing, we found our audience wanted further guidance – to be shown what to say, and how and when to say it. That’s why we’ve developed these videos.”

Each video covers a different scenario. The scenarios are based on feedback from family and whānau of taiohi about the kinds of conversations they felt they needed support with: How to talk when a celebrity dies; talking to young people when suicide is in the media; what to do when young people joke about suicide; safe talk about suicide; and how to help when a young person’s supporting a mate.

The videos were made in collaboration with teachers, social workers, counsellors, parents, whanau and youth health organisations. The video depicting a young person supporting a mate was created in partnership with Te Kaha O Te Rangatahi Trust for which we are grateful.

“These stories represent real life situations and show that simple, clear connection between adults and taiohi will make the tough conversations a little bit easier and helps to create trust and connections,” Mr Robinson says. ”They help us all to play a role in suicide prevention by talking with our young people and ensuring they have the support they need when they have concerns.”

With season three of Netflix’s 13 Reasons Why launching tomorrow, the Foundation is hoping these resources will help adults to talk to their young people about what they’re watching and how it makes them feel. Overseas research has found links between the first two series and subsequent increases in youth suicide numbers.

“We know portrayals of suicide, violence and bullying focusing on youth can have a negative impact on vulnerable young people. It’s vital caregivers are as well prepared as they can be to step in and offer support and a listening ear. These Connecting Through Kōrero resources offer practical examples of how to hold a safe conversation and answer some of the questions young people may have,” Mr Robinson says.

Previously, the MHF created a number of guide sheets for safe viewing of season one and season two of 13 Reasons Why. They are still relevant as there will be new viewers and young people revisiting those series. 

These resources will not be helpful to support young people through their own suicidal feelings or crises. If you're worried a taiohi in your life is suicidal, see our Worried about someone webpage.

 To view the five videos and the online resource, see below.

 For further information contact:

 Mark Wilson
Senior Public Relations and Media Engagement Officer
Mental Health Foundation of New Zealand