Creating Belonging Through Advocacy

Riley (he/they/ia) is a trans-masc, Takatāpui person who also lives with low vision. (Takatāpui is a traditional Māori term meaning ‘intimate companion of the same sex.’ It has been reclaimed to embrace all Māori who identify with diverse genders and sexualities.) As a young professional and passionate advocate, Riley’s unique intersecting identities have created opportunities for connection, community and belonging. At the same time, they have faced challenges including prejudice, discrimination and misunderstanding.

“There are a lot of people who don’t think I should be thriving and living independently, but I am.”

Feeling excluded

As a Takatāpui person with low vision, Riley experiences discrimination in everyday life. Many people with rainbow or disabled identities encounter behaviour that can leave them feeling isolated, unwelcome and excluded, which can have a significant impact on mental wellbeing.

Whether it is being denied access to a space because of a service animal like guide-dog Rangi, receiving hostile comments online, or having their impairment questioned, these experiences can take a toll.

“I shouldn’t have to fight for basic things like getting in a taxi or getting on a bus.”

While these interactions can be frustrating and exhausting, Riley has transformed those experiences into a powerful commitment to advocacy, community and positive change. Through political activism, study, work and meaningful relationships, they have built a strong sense of belonging.

The support of friends and whānau has been a vital part of that journey, providing a safe space where Riley can be fully themselves. Advocacy also gives them a sense of purpose and connection, allowing them to contribute to causes they care deeply about while supporting others facing similar challenges.

For Riley, simply existing authentically is an act of resilience and a reminder that barriers do not define what a person can achieve.

“When I didn’t know where I fit in the world, times were tough. Now I have people that I care for, and they care for me, and I know I’m not alone.”

Purpose and belonging

Riley's low vision and rainbow identity do not define what they are capable of. Instead, they provide a unique perspective that strengthens their sense of purpose and belonging.

These experiences have inspired Riley to advocate for change alongside others who share his passion for creating a more inclusive society.

Most importantly, Riley's experiences help them recognise the strengths in others, creating space for people to feel seen, valued and supported. Through connection, community and advocacy, Riley has found a place where they belong, while helping others find that sense of belonging too.